Well, ask a perfectly healthy and happy[looking] person ‘are you okay?’ 3-4 times and see him doubt whether he actually is! It’s funny how people begin to think ’bout their troubles as if they’re the toughest in the whole world! Nobody thinks that he’s okay! But, the fact is that talking never helps troubles and everybody has troubles. So, try belittling them so long as you know well that you can face ’em.